怎樣減少對男朋友的疑心? 我同佢已經成日見, 但都係咁........點算好???
posted by kk
on 2008-08-15 11:11:19
疑心是一件很有趣的東西, 明明無事的, 但自己硬是將很多聯想, 讓這個疑心成形. kk的男朋友似乎願意花時間見面, 希望讓kk感到自己的重要性. 但kk真的要想清楚自己擔心的是什麼? 有什麼是男朋友做了而讓kk有疑心的? kk的疑心能夠與男朋友傾訴嗎? 還是kk只能裝作無事? 男朋友如何對代kk有疑心的反應? 一笑置之? 苦苦相勸? 還是沒有反應? 男朋友是不懂反應? 還是知道反應過後, kk仍然不開心? 繼續下去, kk的孤單好像得不到男朋友的理解, 男朋友的付出好像得不到認同. 結果, 他們可能忘記了當初被對方吸引的理由, 欣賞對方的事情; 但只留下不滿, 傷心及對別人失去信心.
二人的相處就正正有很多這些細微之處, 需要我們了解及細想. "如何減少對男朋友的疑心" 只是problem solving的方法, 在很多problems中之其中之一, 可能只是"醫得頭又醫不到腳". 但對大家有真正的了解, 可以更容易找到源頭. 後話才是有什麼需要改變.
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Don't let it destroy your relationship, your self-esteem and others. This blog is also welcome same-sex couple.
Friday, 15 August 2008
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- Ms Lilac Kamiya
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- I think we should have our way to enjoy life, We should be able to make our life more colourful! “We are similar, but we are so different!” We have our preference of colour and how we use it! Our intimate relationship, Some say, it's complicated and hard to reach! It’s true, but we can find a way to manage it and enjoy it!
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