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Monday 4 April 2011

Let's get married

What bring you into a marriage? We have different answers at different stage of live.

But what marriage bring into the family? More family members, up side is bringing in resources but the down side is more interpersonal relationship need to deal with. It could be different from engaged couple.

Wedding is a ritual to introduce the new member in the family, to your extended family and friends. It is also giving an announcement about your marriage and status. It shows a move of life from single-hood. When this movement or status is normal in your society, then it implies 'you are normal too!'

Some people would like to highlight their uniqueness by prolonging the period of single-hood, using unusual way to execute the wedding ritual, etc. Actually, it's not easy to be very creative in this kind of traditional event which is completely accepted. So, it's very nice to see when it happens. And don't forget to appreciate the effort has been made by the new couple!

Congratulations to the newly wed!


- Lilac Kamiya

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Hong Kong
I think we should have our way to enjoy life, We should be able to make our life more colourful! “We are similar, but we are so different!” We have our preference of colour and how we use it! Our intimate relationship, Some say, it's complicated and hard to reach! It’s true, but we can find a way to manage it and enjoy it!