It seems we can echo better when we share emotional experience. We know what to do or say, we feel less hesitated to express the emotions which we find familiar with.
When you share the problems that you encounter, usually, people would like to offer help by offering suggestion or emotional support. Those response may touch your heart. Sometimes, intimate relationship begins there.
The style of the relationship at this stage is a bit imbalance. One is offering help and the the one is receiving. But we know that some problems may not be solved easily, when it related to interpersonal interaction, personality and deep down psychological issue. The one who offering help may find too tiring and maybe get exhausted, the other one may became more guilt by not getting big improvement. Or the receiving one felt being loved and cared when the offering one kept paying attention to him/her.
All these may kill the relationship quickly. They do having something attract each other. Do something before the relationship dies.
Love can be shown in different ways, if you can recognise when it's shown.
Regards,
Lilac Kamiya
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