親密關係 n 性 心理諮詢

Intimacy & Sex can become very complicated when they tangle with unmatched expectation!
If you want to improve your relationship with the loved one
If you have something bothering you

Don't let it destroy your relationship, your self-esteem and others. This blog is also welcome same-sex couple.

Monday, 21 March 2011

Happy Tweeting

It may equivalent to Facebook users, your happiness will attract more happy people, or your sadness would attract sad people.

It seems we can echo better when we share emotional experience. We know what to do or say, we feel less hesitated to express the emotions which we find familiar with.

When you share the problems that you encounter, usually, people would like to offer help by offering suggestion or emotional support. Those response may touch your heart. Sometimes, intimate relationship begins there.

The style of the relationship at this stage is a bit imbalance. One is offering help and the the one is receiving. But we know that some problems may not be solved easily, when it related to interpersonal interaction, personality and deep down psychological issue. The one who offering help may find too tiring and maybe get exhausted, the other one may became more guilt by not getting big improvement. Or the receiving one felt being loved and cared when the offering one kept paying attention to him/her.

All these may kill the relationship quickly. They do having something attract each other. Do something before the relationship dies.

Love can be shown in different ways, if you can recognise when it's shown.


Regards,

Lilac Kamiya

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Hong Kong
I think we should have our way to enjoy life, We should be able to make our life more colourful! “We are similar, but we are so different!” We have our preference of colour and how we use it! Our intimate relationship, Some say, it's complicated and hard to reach! It’s true, but we can find a way to manage it and enjoy it!