Blind spot in a relationship

Most people find their relationship is fine once they feel settle, they start committing into it and being more acceptance. Through this process of change, it's easy to lose the self. Losing self may not bad until you lost the relationship.

In the relationship, couple is influencing each other, emotionally, mentally and physically. Basic thing is eating habit and weekend activity. They also learn the way of emotion expression from each other, so that they can feel the 'sameness'.

Sense of togetherness

This is very important sense to keep them together, they would say things like "We..." and they feel comfortable by using this.

But how about "Me..." This is good to rethink your relationship, minimize the blind spot and continue the self development.

- Lilac