My lack of friends since getting married is affecting my work

We need emotional support, not only from the spouse, but also from friends. When work becomes more challenging and competitive, it can be tiring and our energy drained. To solve problem, we also need street wise.

Some people tend to rely on the spouse to provide most of the support, but actually, we don't have to.

Reason No. 1 Diversify: we can get more stimulation from different perspective.

Reason No. 2 Similar experience: old friends of you usually have similar background, like childhood, schooling and even gender, then their care and support would be more relevant.

Reason No.3 More resources: people connections and information can surprise you if you find out more!

- Lilac