High heels and Sex

Some guys find high heels are very sexy, they also may like the shape of the leg, ankle, or toes, etc. They get turn on by seeing this? Or are they having too much imagination?

These imaginations are our fantasy, and sexual fantasy plays an important role in our sexuality health.

Unfortunately, there's a lit of myths about sexual fantasy, such as it's dirty, only guys have it, it's evil, good people won't have such thoughts, its equally bad as sexual harassment, it will turn into 'bad action', it's ....

Actually, sexual fantasy is a very personal thing which you don't need to share with others, even your partner. Of course, sharing can be very healthy when it is not judgmental, causing guilty feeling or leading to inappropriate act.

Some couples share their experience about cross-playing, since one of them has a 'uniform' fantasy, one day, the spouse wanted to bring him a surprise. By looking for proper costumes and props, to make-up, setting up the bed room nicely, sending the kids to participate some activities somewhere.

It's a perfect and unusual sexual experience for this couple, and the partner really appreciates the effort she has made. The most important thing is 'she is really care about me.'

How about her response? She first heard her partner's fantasy, she thought it's silly. Just before his birthday, she thought it would be good to bring him some surprises, then, this mission begins.

She thinks his fantasy is ok and harmless, of cause, she may not bring him a surprise if she doesn't feel comfortable with it. I think that's fair enough. She didn't feel like that would become her permanent role in their relationship. After this, she found her partner would pay more attention to her sexual needs as well.

Lilac Kamiya