Is there any way to maintain a relationship with very low energy input? Why I'm asking this? Because I would run out of my energy easily, and it takes awhile to get the energy restore. In the down time, already feel tired to do the routine things, and of cause don't have the energy to try out new things. I need to be idle peacefully to regain the energy, any expectations or caring would become too much for me. When I'm being alone, people around start worried about me and they begin suggesting things for me. I don't want to disappoint them, so I try to do what they suggest me to, but I feel very tired afterwards.
My husband wants to cheer me up, but I think he is so disappointed by many failed experience. I don't want to drag him into my blue space, I want to maintain our relationship even I'm in a down mood.
Maybe making a cup of coffee for him would be a way to show my love and caring.
If coffee would work for me, and how about you?
Lilac Kamiya
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