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Intimacy & Sex can become very complicated when they tangle with unmatched expectation!
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Thursday, 3 February 2011

Love Message

It seems it's easy to send love message, via email, SMS, Facebook, Twitter, etc. And you even don't need to write something serious, :* is kisses :) is your lovely smile, lol is you're so funny.

All the short terms and symbols help us to deliver our love message, but what's the underneath message you want to deliver?

I like being your partner (?)
You are so wonderful (?)
I just want to bonk you (!?)

Love and making love

Do they have to be related? Are they belong to a cause-and-effect relationship, but which way round? Will girl want to receive a love note which suggest bonking? How about guys?

We usually heard that guys are more interested in sex, even done studis support, but how much is about gender stereotype and social expectation, and how much is about hormones effect. But simply sexual attraction is basic thing happens among people.

Thus, my formulae is "Bonking =\= Making love"

Have a nice day.


- Lilac

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Something more about Lilac...

Hong Kong
I think we should have our way to enjoy life, We should be able to make our life more colourful! “We are similar, but we are so different!” We have our preference of colour and how we use it! Our intimate relationship, Some say, it's complicated and hard to reach! It’s true, but we can find a way to manage it and enjoy it!