His & Her Love

According to the selected article, could scientists help us to know the different between men and women love? How could we show our love in a more effective way?

Some people complain about they couldn't feel the love if they don't receive enough body contact, like holding hands, stroking, kissing etc. Some people complain about no being understood and cared.

But their partners usually confused about no able to deliver their love.

If we can easily say men's love and women's love, then men may able to receive and deliver love through simple and single skill. Such as they can get the love through cooking, watch movie, choosing & buying cellphone/computer stuff. And women can receive and deliver lover through talking & listening, feeling of togetherness, feeling of uniqueness.

But I think the society has already shaping us, boys and girls, what to behave and what should we expect. If our brain function gives us first degree of behaviour modification, then the society gives us second degree of modification.

Luckily, our individual mind may still able to have some adjustment, choose to do thinks that we prefer.

Think about what you really like and how much different from your partner.

Have a good day!

- Lilac

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* Men & Women: differences *

Scientists have come to accept that a few fundamental differences between men and women are biological. It turns out that men's and women's brains, for example, are not only different, but the way we use them differs too. Women have larger connections and more frequent interaction between their brain's left and right hemispheres. This accounts for women's ability to have better verbal skills and intuition. Men, on the other hand, have greater brain hemisphere separation, which explains their skills for abstract reasoning and visual-spatial intelligence. Poet Robert Bly describes women's brains as a "superhighway" of connection while men's brains connections are compared to a "little crookedy country road.'"

All the above gets even more confusing, if we take into account that 15 to 20% of men happen to have a female type of brains, and about 10% of women have a male type of brains, which means that some percentage of men and women, no matter how small it seems, are partially programmed to the behavior and way of thinking of the opposite gender.

(Source: peoplerelationships.syl.com/battleofsexes/differences)