Tiptoeing into love

Do you believe in falling in love in first-sight, or second-sight?

Did you ever try to change the partner/or yourself to fit into the relationship?

 

These may end up in tears if you always eager to get or jump into a relationship, any possibility may become a trap.

 

So, what is tiptoeing into love? Knowing the person by understanding and exploring his/her friend cycle, previous relationship experience (what & how things work and doesn't work), family relationship & duty, work attitude, financial situation (habit of expenses and saving). For example, you may want to know how did he/she treat the previous partner, what made them separate, would you share his/her view of dealing with family/work/friend/self issue. You may not need to ask how rich he/she is, but you can get some clues from their cloths, car, job, etc., but you may want to know their expending and saving habit, thus, you know will you need to share the financial burden later when he/she over spending.

 

Knowing a person in a multiple-direction may help you to get a stable relationship which is more fun and less stress!

 

Don't jumping into love!! Or maybe I'm too old and too conservative.

 

-Lilac