Real love?

Have you heard this before? Have these confrontation happened to you or your friend?
'If you love me, you could do this for me!'
Or
'If you love me, you can sacrify!'

Yes, we can do things for the love one, BUT up to the point. People may have different bottom line. Think about your bottom line!

For example, think about where your happiness comes from? A partner or a relationship which suitable for you?

You might have happy memory before, but if it's just happened in the past, maybe the relationship has been changed. Can you make the relationship work?

Yes, if both of you want to change.

No, if only one of you wants this thing happen.

Maybe, if things work out in the way that you want.

Relationship is just one of the things in our life, and it's not the only way to make us happy. We still have friends and family, work and school, hobbies and religions, etc.

All your best!

Lilac