Benefit? Or more favor to yourself

We are building our self image while we encounter people or situation. So the way we speak, dress, behave, etc. carry such message, as well as the content we deliver. How we frame the message, words and tone we choose to use, would show our underlining message.

Playing the same trick may not always work!

Your partner would know your style and pattern of message delivery, this interaction is not one way only, their response would help you to modify your way which is more useful for you.

We say/do thing to make the thing in the way we like. So that we usually hear different stories from couple about their partner. No surprise when we know their intention or concern.

- Lilac