老公性上癮 頂唔順要離婚

SEXUAL ADDICTION (性上癮)

 

It's a kind of Obsessive Compulsive Behaviour, OCB (強迫症), and it's nothing to do with addiction, but instead it's a type of OCB. Treatment of sexual addiction includes medical therapy and psychotherapy, let's focus on psychotherapy.

 

Whatever the person is in a relationship or not, seeking help from relationship/marital therapy would be more appropriate, it will help the couple to handle the situation instead of blaming the person is a "patient", and it would help the person to review the past experience of intimate relationship which didn't work out alright. Also, seeking sex therapy consultation would be useful for the person and the couple because the sexual myths and underneath beliefs would be reviewed and avoid unnecessary blaming and condemn.

 

Combination of medical treatment and psychotherapy would be most useful to the person and the couple, don't be hesitated and seek resources!

 

Lilac

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老公性上癮　頂唔順要離婚

2010年11月28日  (蘋果日報)

Tiger Woods聲稱自己是患上「性上癮」，所以「唔滾唔安樂」，需要接受治療云云。天下間的老婆不禁泛起一個疑問，「上癮」是否一種病，還是拈花野草的藉口？精神科醫生曾繁光指「性上癮」其實是強迫症的一種：「正如世上有工作狂、運動狂、愛情狂，又或者像我這想唔寫文章唔安樂，都是追求一種滿足而已。」也有人喜歡拔毛，把毛髮當郵票收集！但「性上癮」卻被標籤成禁忌，「（性上癮）為何不被接受？其實都是道德迫害。」患者的慾望不能自控，「如果他要做三次，只做了兩次都發病，手淫都無用，甚至會抑鬱，好痛苦 o架。」性上癮非常罕見，曾繁光說他行醫 20多年，而且專做性治療，也只是見過大約 5名患者。「正如食飯，人人胃口不同，有人一日一餐、有人一日十餐，性是為了開心愉快，食夠自然唔想再食。」但幾多才算「不合理地大食」？「年輕人性慾較強好正常。如果找到一個和你一樣癲的對手，其實沒有問題。如果影響到日常生活和情緒，甚至有犯罪傾向，就要尋求治療。」例如不能勃起都要做愛，影響身體機能；或者把所有工資都花在性工作者身上等。治療方法不外乎是用藥物，或用其他活動試圖分散注意力。而藥物的劑量會比正常多，應由專科醫生處理。但最重要還是與伴侶或配偶達成共識：「兩個人的關係，一是接受一是離開，試試提升伴侶的接受程度。有些人甚至容許另一半與別人搞，甚麼可能性都有，最重要是雙方舒服。」