為什麼三高港女有礙異性追求

四成二受訪女性認為「高學歷」、「高收入」、「高職位」共三高，是令異性卻步的主要原因

受訪對像: 18至40歲未婚女性(318位)

結果:
1. 八成人認為婚姻是人生最重要的一部分
2. 當中蜜運中的受訪者，對婚姻最為憧憬
3. 她們認為港女最吸引異性之處，依次為性格、相貌及思想。
4. 26歲以上女性，有一成六人指對愛情沒有信心，不敢隨便拍拖，是她們仍保持單身的第二大原因，較26歲以下女性高逾三倍
5. 四成二認為，「高學歷」、「高收入」、「高職位」三高，是港女令異性卻步的主要原因
6. 30歲以上仍未拍拖的女性，達半數人特別憂慮會找不到結婚對象
7. 六成人自信會佳偶天成，惟如遇上的追求者未達理想，且非屬結婚對象，會寧願維持單身狀況，不會隨便墮愛河

Terms:
「剩女」: 三十歲或以上仍單身港女

As a woman, when we are getting older, we would have less energy to take risk. To me, getting into an intimate relationship is very risky because I can't fully understand a person before hand. How can I put myself into a relationship but I'm not sure he is my Mr. Right, or not?

We had a short period of time to understand each other through conversation, I got to know his value of live, life, relationship, etc. But I didn't have a chance to observe him with his friends and family. I was 26 at that time, and I thought,

Maybe I can take a risk to see does it work out alright...

When we were together, I observed him when he was with friends, family and me, and also, his ex(s). In this moment, I enjoyed being together but I didn't see it was a long term relationship, because I just don't know.

After a long observation period, I started telling myself that is the type of relationship I like, it was 4-5 years later. In this 4-5 years, I had time to experience the relationship before I jump into marriage.

When I realise it is the relationship I want to maintain for a long term, then we started discussing this issue which created another kind of stress and tension. It was an interesting process to both of us!

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